During their first trip home, freshmen have to decide whether they stick it out with their first love, or succumb to what is known as the “Turkey Drop”— the phenomenon of high-school couples breaking up when they come home for their first Thanksgiving.
Much of my own freshman year in college was determined by one recurring scene. She tells me her plans for the night – maybe a sorority party or a pregame in a friend’s room – and asks me if I want to come along.
About half an hour into the party, I felt someone grab my arm.
It was my second week of college and I was at a frat party at a barn about 20 miles from campus.
He has already said that he would still like to date me if I want to, so it’s basically up to me.That was when I learned he was a senior, and he was shocked to learn that I was only a freshman.We spent the rest of the night lying in the field, looking at the stars, talking about everything from our past relationships to the current economy.It's a familiar scenario: Freshman girl meets a senior boy. Soon after, he took my hand and led me outside to an open field, and with muffled music playing in the distance, we exchanged names. He held my hand and twirled me around on an elevated surface, we laughed as we sang along to the The Chainsmokers' Roses.Many college freshmen are home this week for the first time since August.