Should the relationship evolve, there will be plenty of time to get into weighty topics. When a person reveals too much too soon, it can give a false sense of intimacy.
In reality, premature or exaggerated revelations are due more to boundary issues, unresolved pain, or self-centeredness than true intimacy. Maybe your first date questions will lead you to discover that this person is your soul mate—or maybe not.
Can you give me some Christian relationship advice?
Is it right for a Christian to date or marry a non-Christian?
If an unmarried couple has sex, are they married in God's eyes? "); usually, however, it helps to actually write a couple questions down. Just 3-4 to put in my purse or in my pocket and refer to when we start looking like that elderly couple in the restaurant that remains in silence throughout the meal. Really, once you get started with one or two, it's easy to progress the conversation naturally. How young is too young to be in a romantic relationship? Is it possible to love a person without liking that person? What are valid reasons for breaking up with a boyfriend/girlfriend? Should a Christian use a dating service to find a spouse? If a couple gets pregnant before marriage do they have to get married? How will I know when I have found the perfect spouse for me? What does the Bible say about age differences in relationships? Is it wrong to have a relationship with a close relative? Should Christians of different denominations date or marry? How important is physical attraction when looking for a spouse? The two pick at their dinner salads, staring down at the leafy mound before them. Finally, one of them tries to grease the wheels of conversation. Some people consider themselves skilled communicators because they can talk endlessly.