According to Zak, testosterone conflicts with the monogamous effects of the hormone oxytocin in the brain, and higher testosterone levels make a man’s cost-benefit analysis consider situations that are more current and self-focused.
Husbands with high testosterone levels may go on dating sites to satisfy immediate hormonal urges that suppress the effect of hormones that promote monogamy.
Scenario #1 You’ve been on multiple dates and it’s obvious you both like each other, but you’re not exclusive just yet.
Husbands who do not get sex from a wife or lack positive interactions with her may use dating websites to seek out a healthier relationship. That doesn't mean he didn't open a new POF - he stayed on his other singles site. So how do I get him to change his behavior to that which will guarantee that he will keep doing it. And if you are a snoop, own up to it, lots of people are, there's no rule that you have to follow the rules of others, tell the guy right up front, I will be checking on you so don't play games with me. Or is the question more of "I'm really attracted to him and still want him to stick around and give me what I want.However, if you find you just can’t shake it, you might want to consider another kind of talk (that is, the kind that defines the relationship). Did you already have the conversation to deactivate all your profiles?Scenario #2You’ve been dating for some time and have recently become exclusive when you’re friend stumbles upon his or her profile while searching through matches. Regardless of all the little details, I’m a firm believer that you should say something – don’t just let it because one of two things will likely happen.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. For all I know this is all in your head and you really just want to end the relationship and make it undeniably his fault. You can't trust him, and after you set a trap for him, he prooved untrustworthy, although I have to wonder what motivated you to search his name if you were just *cough, cough* helping someone else set up a profile.