Further, if you’re not a kid person or don’t want kids, you should not date a woman with kids to see if you’ll change your mind.Kids can be great bonuses to meeting someone new and they can also be nightmares just as easily.Here’s what to do: Your go/no-go window remains the third date, but the signals will be all new. My ex self-immolated when I joked about meeting his 6-year-old anytime before she was, say, old enough to drive. I treat my date’s offspring like feral, if adorable, animals—keeping my distance and letting them make the first move.You now have to schedule sex around a third-party: the tyke. He slow-walked the intro since it reminded him his wife was never coming back and he was alone. And whether she calls you her BF or the plumber, just roll with it. And if he really hates you, but she doesn’t dump you, be flattered: She wants to keep you around. Ask only that the menagerie be respectful, with no name-calling, biting, or mud-slinging catapults.Once you’re knee-deep in intimacy with her, ask for an intro.Then use pickups and drop-offs as casual getting-to-know opps or to diffuse any drama.A suave, zen-like guy who can hold in his inner lion is great but if you have a temper tantrum throwing lunatic around your baby, you need to drop him like a bad habit.
We are all free to make up whatever dating preferences we want.So would you guys still date someone who you really liked if they had a child?I would definitely not let a woman that you really really like slip through your hands because she has a child. You will end up payig for someone else's child & raising someone else's child ? You will always have hostility from the father, possibly serious.4.Many guys just don’t know how to deal with a child that isn’t theirs and it becomes immediately evident to the child, even when the mom is disillusioned into thinking that the guy is perfect.Ask your Teen: If you have a teenager it is very important that you get their approval after an introduction or two is made with your potential lover.When you are single and looking to mingle, you generally will not hurt anyone if you start dating “just to see where things go.” Plenty of men do this all the time.