So your divorce has been finalized, and you’ve taken an appropriate amount of time to heal from the painful process of divorce.You were smart enough to avoid jumping right back into the dating scene while the wounds were fresh.Now that you have spent long enough putting the pieces back together, what next? And how do you go about meeting women now that you are older?These are all common and completely realistic conundrums men face once they are ready to put themselves back out there after recovering from a divorce.
Meet them after just a few days of not too much messaging and be on your guard not to reveal too much during that time. People are disappointed by their dates in real life probably 70% of the time.
It is normal to be think this way as we want to avoid loneliness and find love.
Therefore the optimist in us will hope that someone we like is THE one.
You can very easily build up a fantasy person from online chatting which bears very little resemblance to the reality!
It’s impossible to guess what someone who is three dimensional and moves around is like from a static picture.
‘Aren’t we there yet’ and he simply wants to sink into the overbearing comfort of being a coffee-chugging couch potato with homemade yum food spread on the dinner table each night! Let-Me-Check-My-Calendar This guy HAS come to terms with his single status (oh, Thank God!